Finances are a point of contention in most relationships. Are you able to work full time? Are you on a fixed income from disability? While money isn’t the end all be all in life it is needed to pay bills and provide for the future. Are you and your partner on the same page about future goals? Do you wants a large house and family? Are you able to support this plan financially? Having dreams is awesome but financial planning needs to be realistic and based on what is available to you now. Your chances of winning the lottery are quite slim.
Family planning is an important conversation to have regarding your future and a disability. Are you physically able to get pregnant naturally? Will you have the resources or insurance coverage for medical intervention if needed? Surrogacy and IVF are very expensive and if children are something that is essential to your happiness then you need to think about how this will be achieved.
Are you wondering how having a disability will affect your ability to have a long term relationship? There are some aspects that will change but it doesn’t change the love that you and your partner share. The best way to tackle these obstacles is head on with an open line of communication from day one.